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have you ever experienced such a moment:

I feel that everyone around me is living the life I want, but I am still standing still.

do not realize that rather than envy the fish in Linyuan, it is better to retreat and form a net.

the life you want is not at the side of others, but at your own feet.

only by seizing every possibility that can make you better can you get a double reward from heaven.

these 5 habits of enriching yourself, I hope you can develop them as soon as possible!

do good deeds and bring good fortune

Why do people have to be kind?

the best answer I've ever heard is:

"every man has a torch in his heart, and kindness is that flame."

think about it:

kindness is never about the gain or loss of interests, but the choice of every good man from the bottom of his heart.

the goodwill you release does not necessarily win the gratitude of the other party, let alone eliminate all the evil deeds in the world.

but what is certain is that this kind thought is enough to nourish your mind and make your soul intrinsically superior to others.

to do good, you are crossing others, but also yourself.

that year, Fan Zhongyan took a fancy to a house in Suzhou.

after Mr. fengshui's calculation, he found that the fengshui of this room is all good, and the descendants who live here will certainly become princes and aristocrats.

if there are others, they must call their families to enjoy themselves.

however, Fan Zhongyan insisted on turning the house into a school, which benefited all the children in Suzhou.

later, wherever Fan Zhongyan went, there must be people with melons and fruits to welcome.

when the four sons grow up, they all have both ability and political integrity, and they are all in the highest position.

Heart breadth and longevity

Lin Qingxuan once had a classic conversation with Zen master.

at that time, Lin Qingxuan was emotionally frustrated, and his mind was full of life and death.

the Zen master advised him, "you, you need practice."

Lin Qingxuan was puzzled: "how to practice?"

the Zen master said, "eat when you are hungry and sleep when you are sleepy."

Lin Qingxuan smiled a wry smile: "to put it simply, who can guarantee that there is nothing else to read?"

the Zen master replied:

"it is better to ask for others than to ask for yourself, and it is better to ask for your heart than to ask for yourself.

my heart is relieved. Every day is a good day and every night is a clear night. "

fate can not be controlled, but the state of mind can be grasped.

the more you worry about things in life, the more you struggle, and the more you struggle, the more painful you are.

when you have something to worry about, you can't hit it hard, you must take advantage of it.

it is often said in the book: "the heart is full of peaches everywhere, where is it not between clouds and water?"

look at the open, you can laugh at the ups and downs, and you can find prosperity in the mediocrity.

those who have a broad heart live a long life and are always happy.

people work hard to raise money

there is an old saying:

"if you do not plant in spring, you will have no harvest in autumn; if you are young, if you are not diligent, you will have no support when you are old."

this society is very realistic, there are not so many overnight rich and sit back and enjoy it.

the bright future we aspire to is made up of the present that is steadfast and willing to work.

everyone who has made great achievements has experienced a period of silent cultivation.

you know, industrious hands will always benefit people more than a dreamy brain.

work hard now, and you will have more choices in the future.

the house you want and the clothes you want to buy cannot be realized by sitting at home and waiting to die.

only by taking action can we relieve anxiety, and only by struggling can we be entitled to enjoy it in the future.

A diligent man is not long poor; a lazy man is not long rich.

Reading to nourish the heart

someone once asked the writer Liang Xiaosheng, "what are the greatest benefits of reading?"

Liang Xiaosheng replied:

"Reading gives people the ability to fight against loneliness for a long time."

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it is true that reading can not only fill the gap of time, but also fill the lack of heart.

do you still remember the picture taken by the reporter in Fangdang Hospital when the epidemic broke out?

at that time, the virus was rampant, and many people admitted to the hospital were in great panic.

however, the young man was at odds with the chaos around him, with a book in his hand, attentive and calm.

there is a small world hidden in all the books.

if you think reality is too bitter, you might as well pick up a book and find a moment of joy for your soul.

if you find it difficult to solve, you might as well go into the life in the book and look for some motivation to fight against right and wrong.

the more books you read, the less you will be burdened by the world, and even if you go through the vicissitudes of life, your heart will be safe and sound.

for those who love reading, the soul will not be boring and life will not be boring.

Reading is indeed the cure for everything.

self-discipline

another name for self-discipline is self-help.

there are always people around me who feel that self-discipline is too bitter and that getting up early for exercise is not as comfortable as sleeping in bed.

however, in fact, both self-discipline and non-self-discipline have to bear hardships.

if you ask a person, how does self-discipline change him?

his answer may be:

"I ate a hot breakfast, enjoyed the warm spring, and stopped doing things in a hurry."

but if you ask a person, how does staying up late change him?

his answer may only be: he paid an extra hospital bill.

likes a sentence very much: "the premise of freedom is self-discipline, and the top of self-discipline is enjoyment."

self-discipline comes with pain, but it will bring new life. Don't forget that you are the only one who can achieve you at any time.

Life is better, starting with self-discipline.

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Yi Shu once said:

"everyone's end-result is himself in 200d."

diligence can nourish wealth, goodness can nourish happiness, reading can nourish the mind, and self-discipline can also nourish the body.

everything we experience, every decision we make, invisibly affects the fate of our lives.

, may you enrich yourself and never forget the road when you come, and flowers will bloom all over the way.