enduring hardships is becoming a luxury.

A long time ago, bitterness and happiness were closely linked. Some people had to endure hardships while others enjoyed themselves comfortably.

Today, with the development of the times, many people no longer need to endure hardships, their daily life is very comfortable and comfortable, enjoy the pleasure and pleasure brought by short videos, and eat instant takeout.

on the contrary, a small number of people, in order to create more wealth and consolidate their position every day, must always make progress, do a lot of painful things, and constantly endure hardships.

it is obvious that this era is undergoing an invisible change. Some people have already begun to change their sense of smell, while many people are lost in the crisis without knowing it.

some people are suffering, others are enjoying themselves

there is such a story:

one winter, a group of swans prepared to fly south for the winter and stopped on a small island.

A couple on the island were overjoyed to see these extraterrestrials and took out their feed to feed them meticulously.

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when winter comes, the swans no longer fly south, but stay here with peace of mind.

the couple took good care of them day after day, year after year, until one day when the couple got older and left the island, the swans disappeared.

but instead of flying south, they starve to death in the winter season.

and this fragmented spiritual entertainment makes people gradually addicted, unable to extricate themselves, and even fall into a state of obsession.

for a long time, just like a swan in captivity, it loses its self-consciousness and thinking, and finally cannot fly south.

you know, the quickest way to get rid of a person is to indulge him constantly.

many people prefer to anaesthetize themselves in the comfort zone all the time rather than endure hardships and sharpen themselves for the pleasure and enjoyment that are within their reach.

therefore, if you want to change your fate, you must first break away from this "sweet trap" and see through the crisis behind the lust for pleasure.

We should change from passive hardship to "active hardship".

active suffering is not suffering, passive suffering is suffering

A wise man told everyone:

"Life is like tea, those who taste it carefully taste the aftertaste, but if they are forced to do so, they will only remember the bitterness of the entrance."

this is the case with everything. People who "ask for trouble" tend to feel happy, while those who suffer passively will only feel hopeless.

A long time ago, there was a prestigious private school teacher who was famous for his strict teaching and had many rules.

before the chicken crow at dawn, students should sit in the classroom in neatly dressed clothes; if they do not memorize their textbooks, they are not allowed to turn off the lights and rest.

all the students in the classroom are sad and groaning, while a poor teenager outside the window is always in high spirits and is even more happy when it comes to learning.

compared with the students in the classroom, the teenager gets up early in the morning and travels thousands of miles every day, and in the evening he stays up late to study hard by means of rice lights.

A teenager's life seems to be more bitter, but he does not feel bitter at all. Instead, he feels that it is a kind of fun and enjoyment.

people in this life, not only learning, anything else, taking the initiative to do is completely different from doing it passively.

suffering is a characteristic of everyone's life, and there is a constant amount of suffering that a person has to eat all his life.

Outstanding people tend to be self-disciplined, while undisciplined people tend to be mediocre.

self-discipline determines the height of our lives and hides the infinite possibilities of life.

if one cannot suffer from self-discipline in his whole life, he will eventually suffer from mediocrity.

Luck and cleverness can only win you for a while, but you need perseverance for a long time.

people who see through the world practice with suffering

pain is actually the fastest way to awaken people, and it is also a basic attribute of life.

suffering does not occur for no reason, let alone disappear out of thin air, it just changes from one form to another, jumping from one stage to another.

therefore, the more you avoid it, the more expensive it will be to face it in the future.

suffer the hardships of study

Mencius said: "Heaven will fall on the people, and they must first work hard, strain their bones and bones, and starve their body and skin."

if you want to achieve something, you must first endure suffering and study. Although reading is hard, it is the quickest shortcut to success.

the book that we read into our heads is an important indicator of our lives. Where we want to go, the book will tell us the answer.

in this life, there are two things that others cannot take away, one is the dream in the heart, the other is the book in the brain.

Reading and learning is the spiritual practice of each of us all our lives, and it is also the best way to the wider world.

suffer from self-discipline

the ancient poem said: "A sharp sword needs to be polished, and the fragrance of plum blossoms comes from the cold winter."

the more sharpened the sword is, the colder the plum blossom is, the more fragrant it is, and the same is true of people. If they are willing to bear hardships and be able to exercise self-discipline, they will be able to reach what others cannot reach and see what no one has ever seen.

Outstanding people tend to be self-disciplined, while undisciplined people tend to be mediocre.

self-discipline determines the height of our lives and hides the infinite possibilities of life.

if one cannot suffer from self-discipline in his whole life, he will eventually suffer from mediocrity.

Luck and cleverness can only win you for a while, but you need a real long time.By perseverance.

suffer from labor

there is a saying in the Book of changes: "A gentleman should imitate the way of heaven and make continuous self-improvement."

diligence is a man's blessing, and comfort is the beginning of misfortune.

since ancient times, China has advocated that people should be diligent and frugal in running their families, and hard work is the most honorable and tiring thing.

although labor is tiring, only hard-working people can continue to build and prosper families.

only when you are young, keep working hard and earn one more penny, will you have more strength in life; more savings will give you more right to choose.

suffer from thinking

the Master said, "to learn without thinking is labor lost, and to think without learning is perilous."

thinking is very important to our lives.

you know, the direction is always greater than our efforts, and good strategic planning is better than our countless times of tactical diligence.

in any era, thinking is inevitable, and the depth of thinking can determine the height we can finally reach.

suffer from persistence

in fact, it is not difficult to do one thing, but it is difficult to persist in doing one thing.

it is not difficult to persist in doing one thing, but it is difficult to stick it out.

everything will face setbacks and confusion, but please don't give up easily.

only by persevering can we get a harvest, and only by perseverance can we win the final victory.

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as the saying goes, "if you eat bitterness, you will be superior to others."

if you don't want to suffer small losses, you will suffer big losses in the future. If you don't eat small hardships, you will suffer great hardships in the future.

therefore, do not want to gradually sink in this impetuous world, we should learn to take the initiative to endure hardships, when you go through all the hardships, all the good things will come in profusion.

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