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the ancients said:

there are eight hardships in life-birth, old age, illness, death, love and parting, resentment for a long time, can not ask, can not let go.

Life is short, like fleeting, but more bitter than happy, nine times out of ten.

if you think about it earlier, you will let it go earlier; the longer you struggle, the more troubles you will have; one second more pain, one second less happiness.

A wise man knows how to let go. A wise man never asks questions for the rest of his life.

Open-minded people, don't ask about the past

M á rquez wrote in A hundred years of Solitude:

"the past is all fake, memories are a road with no way back, and all the past springs cannot be recovered."

all the pain and joy of the moment are temporary and will eventually be left behind.

if you always look back on the road, you will miss the scenery ahead.

like a short story very much:

once upon a time, a small vase vendor rushed to the market with a pole.

with a sudden crisp sound, a vase fell to the ground and broke.

the peddler walked on without looking back.

passers-by were puzzled, so they asked him, "your vase is broken. Why don't you look back?"

the small vendor replied:

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"No matter how I look back, the vase is broken. I have to rush to the market, where there are customers waiting for me."

the past is irrecoverable, just because of the past, just like a broken vase, it will not help to recall and regret.

Open-minded people know how to leave everything in the past to yesterday and keep a transparent heart to move on.

A calm person, don't ask now

there is a poem well written:

Let bygones be bygones and there is no need to think about the future. Ufeffufeff

in this sentence, when plums are ripe, gardenia is fragrant.

many people live very tired, either sighing about the past or worrying about the future.

live in yesterday and tomorrow, but forget that you can only live in the present.

share a story:

someone asked Master Huihai, "Zen Master, is there anything different about you?"

Huihai replied, "Yes, I eat when I feel hungry and sleep when I feel tired."

the man then asked, "what's the difference? everyone is like this. What's the difference?"

Huihai replied, "when they eat, they always think about other things and don't concentrate on eating; they always dream when they sleep and can't sleep well." And I eat is to eat, sleep is to sleep, so different. "

wise people never ask, what should I do to be happy at the moment?

because when you think so, you already live somewhere else.

every moment right now is the only time you can grasp.

only by living in the present and putting your heart and soul into life can you cut off the sadness of the past and the fear of the future, and the mind can be liberated and truly happy and satisfied.

magnanimous people, don't ask about the future

the normality of life is impermanence, and no one can know the script of life in advance.

in the face of impermanence, the best state is not to calculate thousands and thousands, but to live with the circumstances.

Su Shi's official career was full of twists and turns and his fate was ill-fated, but no matter how bumpy he was, he was always humiliated and humiliated, and he waited safely no matter what he encountered.

when he was demoted to Huangzhou, he had no money to buy delicious food, so he bought pork that was not eaten by anyone at that time, but the price was very cheap, and cooked it himself.

in a foreign land, what to do if he can't sleep? Su Shi went to play with his good friend Zhang Huaimin, chatted while enjoying the beautiful night, and wrote the famous article "Journey to Chengtian Temple at Night".

sometimes when you get home in the middle of the night, your children snore like thunder and don't even knock on the door.

Su Shi was not depressed or angry because of this, but "leaned on the staff to listen to the sound of the river" and thought about life: "the boat died and Jiang Hai spent the rest of his life."

Wang Zengqi put it well: "there is love for everything in the world, and it is rare to be at ease."

in the torrent of life, the best state is difficult and optimistic, embarrassed and peaceful, not afraid of the road ahead, calmly face the ups and downs of the future.

Lin Qingxuan said: "Joy comes and joys, but hardships come willingly."

instead of living in impatience, it is better to enjoy life in calmness.

to be a calm person, to be calm and calm is not only a kind of realm, but also the wisest attitude towards life.

half of our life has passed, let us learn to let go, let go of the past, not worry about the future, cherish the present.

you will find that there are far less troubles than you think, and there are not so many conditions for happiness.

Bai Juyi wrote a poem: "regardless of the promontory and Tianya, peace of mind is home."

you can be at ease only if you have nothing to worry about. Peace of mind means peace of mind.